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Is There Really No Such Thing As Coincidence?

The law of attraction proponents like to say things like:

  • there’s no such thing as a coincidence
  • everything happens for a reason
  • nothing in your life happens by accident
  • everything happens in accordance with God’s plan

Perhaps those are comforting things, but is that really true? And if so, what does that mean?

Christianity has struggled with the debate between predestination and free will since its beginnings. The free will philosophy states that we are free to make decisions that will effect the outcomes of our lives independently of any particular cause or supernatural force.

Predestination, on the other hand, states that some mystical force such as fate or the gods are in complete control of our lives. They’ve planned out our lives from well before we came into this world and crafted a universe that unfolds according to their programming.

We know that as we live our lives, many things are caused by something. If we don’t pay our bills (cause), we’ll be kicked out of our home or apartment, our car will be taken away, and our credit score will be damaged (effects). We know that if we don’t eat or drink for several weeks (cause), we’ll die of dehydration or malnutrition (effect).

But can that philosophy be applied to everything, all the time, no exceptions? Was Einstein right when he proclaimed “[God] does not throw dice”?

If this were true, you would have to accept the premises that everything that happens is solely because the gods, fate, or destiny has programmed it into us and our environment. Our every decision or move is known in advance and fits squarely into their overarching “plan”. In this case, God or some other supernatural force would be said to be omniscience – all knowing – and not only does this deity or force know what the future holds, everything in the future unfolds based on what God wants.

Many people are uncomfortable with this notion because it implies that we are all puppets on a string. Our every decision and outcome has been determined in advance and we are simply actors and actresses playing out our assigned role on God’s stage.

However, if we are simply playing out the role which we were assigned, the question becomes “are we to blame for our actions?” Is it fair to punish people for acting in accordance with God’s intention?

In our society, we tend to hold people accountable for their actions. If someone steals, rapes or murders, we’ll give them a trial in court to determine their innocence or guilt, but except in extreme cases, we assume they knew what they were doing when they committed the act and chose to do it anyway. In other words, they were responsible for their actions, and therefore they deserve to be punished accordingly.

(There’s a huge body of philosophical literature that discusses whether we are truly responsible for our own actions – see Wikipedia’s philosophical treatise on free will for an overview.)

On the other hand, if we know that everything is happening because of God’s plan, should we help the poor and those in need? If God has dealt them their hand, shouldn’t they play their cards? Why should anyone step in and give them a hand, put food on the table or give them emotional support? After all, this is how God intended.

Perhaps you could argue that while it’s true that God deals some people a bad hand, he also puts others in their lives to help them with their ordeals and gives them the resources to overcome their situation. This is simply God teaching us a lesson like a father might teach his children. Christians often point to the Book of Job as an example. Still, it’s difficult to comprehend why God would such catastrophic things to happen – like 9/11, the Holocaust, or the myriad of natural disasters ranging from massive tsunamis to volcano eruptions to category 5 hurricanes. Are all of these merely the result of God teaching us a lesson?

With Einstein, we know that as quantum theory developed, most physicists came to disagree with Einstein. Specifically, Niels Bohr and Werner Heisenberg’s theories directly conflicted with Einstein’s. Bohr and Einstein even had intense debates about how particles might pass through a slit in order to prove that there was uncertainty at the quantum level (Einstein disagreed with this, but Bohr’s arguments became the dominant belief).

That said, there are still many things we don’t know about quantum theory. Physicist Stephen Hawking wrote in his book, A Brief History of Time,

“These quantum theories are deterministic in the sense that they give laws for the evolution of the wave with time. Thus if one knows the wave at one time, one can calculate it at any other time. The unpredictable, random element comes in only when we try to interpret the wave in terms of the positions and velocities of particles. But maybe this is our mistake: maybe there are no positions and velocities, but only waves. It is just that we try to fit the waves to our preconceived ideas of positions and velocities. The resulting mismatch is the cause of the apparent unpredictability.”

Still, even if particles acted as waves in all cases, we’d still perceive uncertainty in our lives. If we flip a coin, we know with certainty that it will either land as heads or tails. But the correct answer is a mystery to us until the act has been completed. Much of how we analyze our life is hindsight. Perhaps we know that because we called heads and the coin landed as tails, the other team got the ball first, got early momentum and got an early lead that eventually led to them winning the game. Would we still have played if we knew in advance the other team was going to win?

Chances are, we wouldn’t (just as we like watching the highlights of the big plays after the fact, but few of us actually like sitting through a rerun of a game that has already been played and that we already know the outcome of). Our excitement and enthusiasm comes from our belief that how we play the game shapes the outcome – that our choices matter – that it’s the excitement of playing the game at that moment which is important.

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7 Responses to “Is There Really No Such Thing As Coincidence?”

  1. ryan says:

    it is life it has happend for a reson. it is part of lifes corse and it will not be stop. there is nothing we can do abont it, it is evrywere. it is us an we are it life is great

  2. Melinda says:

    I believe that everything happens for a reason, that people are placed in situations and places to help others, to learn a lessons or sometimes due to a draw of the spirits.
    Like spirits are drawn together. Have you ever caught yourself running upon the same person over and over in the mall or a restuarant or even on vacation.
    Could it be your spirits are drawing you together?
    I don’t believe in total predestination, I believe we have our on will, I believe things change as we grow in our spirits through God.

  3. Art says:

    I don’t believe in predestination. I believe we all have free will. God does not control us. But, He knows everything that will happen from the beginning till the end of time because He is God. Each of our choices determines what will happen next. But, I believe that things happen for a purpose and they happen because they’re supposed to happen. If you hit a glass with a hammer, it will break because that’s what the laws of physics dictate. So, if you keep running into someone, or someone comes into your life at just the right moment, it’s not because something you did, but a combination of things in your life and that other person’s life that put you in the right place at the right time. You’ll know if it was meant to be by the outcome of that meeting.

  4. Mario says:

    It is both

    It has been….

    Things are given but we have choices.
    Our conciousness decides and we have volition

  5. Kasrawy says:

    I think most people would go on about fate and destiny as though they believe it (and maybe they are trying) but when push comes to shove-when there is a decision that they believe will impact their lives substantially- they fret and worry about each and every step they take as if the outcome was not already predestined. It just baffles me as they are either unwitting or completely hypocritical.

  6. William says:

    I REFUSE to believe that everything in life is an “accident” and people who believe that “accidents” are all there is in life, may just as well give up, right away!

  7. treehugrkatt says:

    How about this.
    I’d like to think of our lives as an abundant network of paths we have the choice to walk down. Ever hear the saying “We are all of us good people, some of us just make bad choices.”?
    Most of the time you will come across a junction with multiple breaks in the ‘road’, and you have the option to stay where you are or travel down one of the presented paths. You cannot take steps back, but you can follow a path that leads back around to where you were. These circles can be any length, roads can be any width.
    Each path may have stops along the way in order to finally reach your destination, or goal. There may be obstacles that block your path and may then open up another trail [opportunities] you can follow to circle around and gain access to the rest of that original path.
    But, whatever you do, wherever you go, there was a reason you chose to go that way- a reason to why a path may be blocked, or may seem like it could go on forever with no destination at the end. Whether this reason is put there by yourself, some deity or spirit, or even a physical being on the other side of the world. There is a reason. It may not be clear to you now, maybe because the path that explains the reason has not yet opened for you yet- or the reason cannot present itself to you, perhaps due to a company you know nothing about but is, in fact, out there taking their own paths. Or maybe you already know the reason, and your path is quite clear, where you know just the right trail to follow when a junction appears.
    Given the world is not as large in comparison to the universe, some people’s paths intertwine. To someone, this may be a side trail to help clear a block- to someone else, it may be their clear path of choice. This is the ‘chance meeting’. Hence, why in alternate dimensions [if there are such things] these two same people may never have met before, simply because the paths they had chosen did not converge at any point. But in some lives, whichever paths these two people may take, their trails will inevitably converge at some point- or even intertwine several times over. This is the ‘fated meeting’. Souls that attract each other- through some higher level of influence perhaps.
    Regardless of the ‘how’ or ‘when’, each of us have our own lives to make our own choices in. Some like to remain on the ‘straight and narrow’, while others jump or fall off the edge of this path and might never [want to] find the right junction to get back to it.
    In summary, there is a yin to the yang- a cause and effect- a balance of reason to explain the ‘why’. One thing is for sure, whatever happens to us- makes us who we are.
    So far, there is no word for this belief. It is not quite fatalism, a hint of spiritualism and some notions of logic.
    Maybe I’ll call it Pathism.. no wait, that’s taken [http://coppermind.17thshard.com/wiki/Pathism]. Something else then…
    Oh, btw, i AM serious- just in case you were wondering. ^_^

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